“Money can be divided pretty evenly, but the teacup that grandma always used? Maybe there’s only a $2 value associated with that teacup, but because of the sentimental value and the emotions around it, that causes the controversy.”
While it is easier to think about an inheritance as money or assets, don't forget the other valuables that get left behind. The gift of “family” itself in the form of history, stories, memories, and mementos are also part of your legacy — a part that your heirs may value more than the cash.
For support of this notion, consider the findings of a recent survey of baby boomers, as reported in a recent article of MarketWatch titled “Your heirs want this even more than your money.”