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Hand on financial pageThe best time to discuss finances with your parents is when they are competent, self-sufficient adults. Planning ahead and seeking out the appropriate professional financial assistance on their behalf can help ensure your parents enter their golden years in the most comfortable, stress-free and secure way possible.

You may dread having the "financial talk" with your aging parents, but this is one conversation that needs to happen sooner rather than later.

A recent article on KARE11.com, titled "Helping aging parents with financial matters," wisely advises approaching this topic in a respectful manner. The article stresses that you be extremely mindful of the delicate nature of your parents' financial and emotional needs, and that you should not step in if it is not necessary.

Older couple on benchAs we age, we begin to reflect on where we've been and what we've accomplished.  Do we leave an imprint on our family's lives? Do we live life to the fullest? What is our purpose in life?

Results of several studies indicate that a sense of living a purposeful life has a profound effect on our well-being and our life span.

A recent New York Times post, titled "Living on Purpose," by Paula Span highlights a study that noted those older adults claiming to pursue high purpose lives may delay the onset of Alzheimer's.  Also, Span noted that studies drew a correlation between individuals living purposeful lives were less likely to develop disabilities and less likely to die earlier than those who defined their lives as low purpose.

Money treeLeaving even a small inheritance to your children requires planning. Regardless the size of your estate, structuring an inheritance properly can avoid problems and help your beneficiaries use your hard-earned assets more wisely.

Last year, AARP included an article in its materials titled, "How to Leave an Inheritance to Your Kids." Among other things, the article provides several tips on how to properly set up your estate plan to leave an inheritance to your children.

One tip is to manage expectations. Talk to your children so they will have a better understanding of your assets and what they may expect as their inheritance from them. Another tip is to treat all of the children equally. This will reduce cause for arguments and hurt feelings. This equal treatment should also include sharing responsibilities when it comes to settling your affairs, not just the division of assets. If, however, you decide to split your assets in some manner other than equal shares, take the time to explain your reasoning.

Dogs whisperIf there is a boogeyman when it comes to family conversations about inheritance, it is not death. It’s the $40 trillion that financial advisers say their baby boomer clients are going to pass to their children either in an orderly way — or in a chaotic mess. A report by UBS on why families should talk about inheritance confirms the reluctance of people to talk about death and money.

Remarkably, a recent New York Times article, titled "What’s Almost as Certain as Death? Not Talking About the Inheritance," noted that it is easier to have a will (83% do) than it is to discuss the will with your children (only half). It is even more difficult to give them details about those assets (34%).

Regardless their levels of financial wealth, those surveyed were equally deficient when it comes to discussing estate plans with their children. Roughly 55% of people with more than $1 million talk to their children about an inheritance, and 53% of people with fewer than $1 million did. As you might expect, the majority of parents want the transfer of money to their children to go smoothly (84%) without creating bad feelings among siblings (66%).

Couple holding handsDid you think estate planning would be easier because you don’t have children … or that you don’t really need an estate plan? If so, you couldn’t be more wrong!

The website dailycall.com recently posted an article, titled "Aging and estate planning for singles and couples without children," to help get you thinking about the special challenges people face who do not have adult children to assist them in their aging years.

Here are some of the ideas suggested:

New baby blocksYou may have made a giant estate planning mistake without even knowing it — forgetting to update the names of your beneficiaries for your employer-sponsored retirement plans, IRAs, life insurance policies, mutual funds, bank accounts, brokerage accounts, annuities and 529 college savings plans.

The recent MarketWatch article, titled “Don’t make the No. 1 estate-planning goof,” outlines several reasons for updating your beneficiary designations. Here are a few:

  • A change of jobs. A job change can mean that you will need to roll over your retirement plan. If this happens, beware! Moving money from your former employer’s retirement plan into your new one or into an IRA could eliminate your beneficiaries’ claims to those assets. You should make sure you have them as beneficiaries on the new account, too.

401 K roadsignNow is the time to adopt financial habits that determine a successful retirement,
even if you’re still in your 20s.

(Note: Parents, here is a great article to share with your twenty-something adult children!)

If you are a twenty-something, you have plenty of time to think about investing, right?

Retirement road signA ruling by the U.S. Supreme Court holding that assets contained in an inherited individual retirement account (IRA) don’t qualify as retirement funds for the purposes of bankruptcy exemption, has turned the estate planning community on its head.

Prior to a recent US Supreme Court ruling, inherited IRAs were treated as retirement savings and not as current income. It was thought that if you made an heir a beneficiary of your IRA, the money in the IRA would be safe from your heir's creditors after you passed away. Well, those inherited IRAs may now be fair game to creditors.

As Insurance News Net points out, in an article titled Court Decision Has Implications for Estate Planning,the full implications of this court ruling are not yet clear. The court's decision leaves open the possibility that a surviving spouse named as the beneficiary of an IRA might still be able to treat it as retirement savings, but the court did not address that issue. For other beneficiaries, however, it is clear that in most states, inherited IRAs will be much easier for creditors to claim in bankruptcy proceedings or otherwise. Such an inheritance will be treated as income, not retirement savings.

Dogs whisperIf there is a boogeyman when it comes to family conversations about inheritance, it is not death. It’s the $40 trillion that financial advisers say their baby boomer clients are going to pass to their children either in an orderly way — or in a chaotic mess. A report by UBS on why families should talk about inheritance confirms the reluctance of people to talk about death and money.

Remarkably, a recent New York Times article, titled "What’s Almost as Certain as Death? Not Talking About the Inheritance," noted that it is easier to have a will (83% do) than it is to discuss the will with your children (only half). It is even more difficult to give them details about those assets (34%).

Regardless their levels of financial wealth, those surveyed were equally deficient when it comes to discussing estate plans with their children. Roughly 55% of people with more than $1 million talk to their children about an inheritance, and 53% of people with fewer than $1 million did. As you might expect, the majority of parents want the transfer of money to their children to go smoothly (84%) without creating bad feelings among siblings (66%).

Divided wedding cake topperA scenario commonly encountered within estate planning is when an individual dies while negotiating a separation agreement with their spouse, or when in the midst of divorce proceedings.  While a divorce order will void specific bequests to a spouse, merely initiating negotiations or proceedings will not.

Married couples typically plan to leave significant portions of their estates to the surviving spouse. If a divorce were to occur, a change would need to be made to the estate plan to remove the ex-spouse. Most of the time, if you do not change your estate plan after getting a divorce, a judge will ordinarily disregard any specific bequests you made to your ex-spouse. The law assumes you would not want your estate to go to a former spouse.

However, as the Wills, Trusts & Estates Prof Blog points out in a recent article titled When Death Occurs Mid-Divorce,the same thing is not true if you are in the divorce process but your divorce has not yet been finalized. This is a common problem when a divorce has been filed and one of the parties passes away during the process. When that happens, it can cause issues with a family home that is owned by both parties. If the home is owned as joint tenants, then the property will automatically pass to the survivor. If the divorcing couple owns the home as tenants in common, however, the deceased party’s share of the home will go to his or her heirs.

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