Lauren Bacall's loss of husband Humphrey Bogart when her children were young does point to some of the issues surviving spouses face when there is a difference of age of 20 years or more. Of course, May-December marriages don't only happen in Hollywood, and the resources and circumstances can be very different.
Lauren Bacall lost husband Humphrey Bogart when her children were young. When interviewed by Vanity Fair in 2011, she considered herself lucky to be married to Humphrey Bogart, benefitting greatly from his knowledge of Hollywood. Bacall was 25 years younger than Bogart, but she didn't mind the age difference at all. However, losing her husband emphasizes the issues surviving spouses face when there is a significant age difference in the couple— in Hollywood or otherwise.
In May-December marriages, there is a strong possibility one spouse will survive the other by many years. Typically it is an older man and a younger woman, although vice versa as well. Since women generally live longer than men, when it is the husband who is the older spouse, the estate planning issues are even more critical. A young mother with children can be placed in a very tenuous position if she has stopped working to raise the family and the husband passes away. A young mom needs a financial plan that contemplates this situation.