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We’re taught from an early age that it’s rude to talk about money and no one likes to talk about their own death. Our children hate the conversation , and it's uncomfortable for everyone. But Baby Boomers who have not had conversations with their heirs about estate plans need to start talking, and soon. A recent MarketWatch article, "How to tell your kids how much money you're leaving them," provides excellent guidance to help the process along.

A recent survey found that 72% of parents experience at least some reluctance to discussing financial matters with their children. That's not in anyone's best interest. Disorganization and miscommunication can be costly. The costs can be in dollars, as heirs miss tax deadlines and other opportunities sorting through the files, and in hurt feelings and confusion, as children struggle to understand their parents' decisions.

Here are some ideas for boomers who want to start the process:

Signing document close upA jumbo sized battle in a high profile and seemingly never-ending estate matter highlights what may appear to be a minor detail in estate planning but what is in fact an important consideration: the executor fee.

According to a recent Wall Street Journal article, "Battle Involving Leona Helmsley Estate Spotlights Issue of Executor Pay," the New York attorney general has challenged the proposed fee on the estate of real estate mogul Leona Helmsley. The $100 million sought by the executors, including two of Helmsley's grandchildren, is "astronomical" and should be reduced by 90%, the state Attorney General Eric Schneiderman said.

An issue in this case is that the will does not specify how the executor fees should be calculated, while ruling out the use of a fee schedule in state law, according to the attorney general's filing.

Fight over moneyFamily members are fighting to lift a shroud of secrecy following the death of a successful bishop who built a real estate empire and a megachurch. As reported in The Detroit News in "Family battles over megachurch founder's estate," the estate of a Pentecostal bishop from Detroit could be valued at up to $10 million. The bishop's heirs want their inheritance, and the church is pushing back.

Bishop William Bonner's two adult grandchildren say his survivors are being shut out of their inheritance, and they believe officials with a Harlem church are hiding money and records about property that belongs to the family.

Bonner died in April at age 93, after suffering from dementia and complications from a stroke. He founded Solomon's Temple in 1944, which has grown into a 2,500-seat sanctuary. His real estate empire includes as many as 30 homes and other properties in several states, his family says. His survivors want the church to open its books on his financial affairs to give them more information about the bishop's Will detailing property and cash that they claim should be part of their inheritance.

Empty adirondack chairsThe same generation that redefined American culture is making changes to the concept of inheritance as well. A recent article in Forbes, "How Boomer Parents Feel About Leaving Inheritances," looked at two studies concerning inheritances to find that Baby Boomers are of two minds when it comes to leaving inheritances to their children. Some have no intention of leaving anything behind. They don't lack for generosity; they just have a different way to share. Others are planning on leaving assets to their offspring, but are not sure that their heirs will be able to manage an inheritance wisely.

The Hearts & Wallets report, Funding Life After Work: Impact of Parenthood & Wealth Transfer on Retirement Solutions for Baby Boomers, reveals that roughly 40% of those surveyed plan to leave inheritances. About 30% expect to spend all their money, and the other 30% aren't sure. There's one item that the majority of the parents had in common: they're afraid of running out of money. And those who plan to leave inheritances are extremely terrified of running out of money!

Interestingly, ultra-wealthy parents appear to be more apt to give their kids inheritances, according to a US Trust survey of high net worth individuals with at least $3 million in investable assets. Some 57% of the respondents think it's important to leave a financial inheritance to the next generation—which is somewhat less than the 66% of Gen X'ers and 74% of Millennials who felt this way. However, only 27% of the parents surveyed have told their children how much they are likely to inherit. One reason for this is that only 20% strongly agreed that their children will be prepared to handle the wealth they'll receive.

Divided wedding cake topperUpdating beneficiary designations is usually the simplest part of estate planning, but it's also the most likely part of estate planning to be overlooked. You have beneficiaries on pretty much every account, from 401(k)s to life insurance policies. Do you know who your beneficiaries are?

USA Today says that it's not just because many of us have the majority of our assets tied up in products like these. The article, "Your ex could get rich if you don't update your beneficiaries," explains that it's also because beneficiary designations on a 401(k) or IRA are legally binding and often take precedent over anything in your will. This can lead to some serious unpleasantries if your beneficiary information isn't updated.

Many times a person who has worked at the same company for 20 years has a beneficiary designation that they set up on their first day of work, and they never think about it again. However, their lives are rarely the same fifteen or twenty years down the line. For example, they might be divorced and remarried, or they might have children or grandchildren who weren't even a twinkle in someone's eyes way back then. Leaving an estate to an ex-spouse or disinheriting your own children is not a rare event when people don't update their beneficiary designations.

Multigenerational familyMake no mistake. Estate planning is, and should be, a serious business, along with financial planning and wealth management, notes The Wilmington Business Journal. These are all on-going activities and part of a well-managed, successful life, at any age or stage.

In its article "Do You Really Want To Leave a Large Inheritance?" the Journal advises seniors that having enough retirement funds is critical. But what about this other school of financial planning: Don't Die Rich!

The "Don't Die Rich!" philosophy is based on the premise that money is best used while you are around to enjoy it and appreciate the benefits. Due to lengthening life spans, in many cases, parental assets aren't going to be around to be inherited by children until those children are near retirement age.

What steps can you take when a parent passes away without sharing the location of a will or telling you who the attorney was who drafted and executed the will? What if you can't find any copies in what seem like reasonable hiding places in Houston?

The article, "What steps to take when you lose a will," from New Jersey 101.5 says there are plenty of clues you can use to track this down.

If your mom has passed away, first be certain that a will hasn't already been probated. Contact the probate court in the county where your mother lived at the time of her death. These records are public.

Blocks familyFarmers are well versed in the cyclical nature of life, particularly those who deal with livestock. But thinking about your own demise is different than considering the eventual end of animals bred and raised solely for consumption. Talking about death among family members is difficult. But planning in advance for the next generation will help with survivors' ability to work the land and continue a legacy.

A recent AgriNews article, "Estate planning can lessen grief for survivors," emphasizes that the land is key. It's the heart of the business. Estate planning is about protecting that land.

You should seek the advice of a qualified and experienced estate planning attorney who is well-versed in current estate laws and farm business operations in the state.

American as apple pieShould you cut the pie in equal portions? If you are preparing an estate plan and want to make sure that every one of your children receives the exact same amount of your assets because that's fair, you may want to reconsider. A post from New Jersey 101.5, "Being fair in estate planning," discusses the differences that take place during child rearing and even early adulthood that may redefine what you think of as fair.

While there's no easy answer to the question of what is fair, treating the children equally can be fair. But so can unequal treatment.

Let's look at how a parent treats a minor or young adult child. There are times when a parent simply needs to spend more on one child. The reason may be apparent—for instance, if one child has a disability or serious illness. But it can be more muddied when one child participated in costlier school-age activities, went to a more expensive college, or planned a more expensive wedding than the other kids. Even so, provided each child was given equal opportunities, the unequal financial support may not be a problem. Nonetheless, some parents believe that it's important to keep everything as equal as possible.

Woman toastingSeventy may not exactly be the new 50, but it's not that far off. According to a recent article in Money, "Happy 70th Birthday, Boomers!" researchers say that members of this generation – born from 1946 through 1964 – are healthier from a physical and mental standpoint than previous generations. This also means that the oldest boomers, who will turn 70 in 2016, are more likely to see their 85th birthday. Their grandparents at 70 had only a 28% chance to reach age 85. Want to feel even better? More than one in 10 of the oldest members of the baby boom generation will live to age 95, compared to their grandparents' generation of only three in 100.

You've plenty of time left to invest, protect, and enjoy your money. So, Roll Over Beethoven! Here's a financial to-do list that rocks!

To keep from pulling money out of a declining market for living expenses, have at least 12 months of cash on hand to cover day-to-day costs. Also, you should be taking Social Security now, since there's no upside to delaying once you hit 70.

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