Adult Children

Picking a Power of Attorney and Keeping the Peace

Published on: October 14, 2019 | By McCulloch & Miller, PLLC

In many families, it’s easier to figure out the ‘who gets what’ part of an estate plan than it is to decide which person should be power of attorney. Which adult child can handle finances, which one is better with decisions during a crisis?

Making the decision about which family member will take on the responsibility of power of attorney may be a little easier, if you have a clear understanding of what the role entails. Your estate planning attorney has seen every possible family dynamic and will be able to help you work through this decision.

Considerable’s recent article, “How to assign power of attorney without sparking a family feud,” gives us some idea how the power of attorney can work within a family and among siblings.

Talking About Financial Planning with Aging Parents

Published on: September 19, 2019 | By McCulloch & Miller, PLLC

Unless you are raised in a family that talks about money, values and planning, starting a conversation with elderly parents about the same topics can be a little awkward. However, it is necessary.

In a perfect world, we’d all have our estate plans created when we started working, updated when we married, updated again when our kids were born and had them revised a few times between the day we retired and when we died. In reality, a recent report by Merrill Lynch and Age Wave says that only half of Americans have a will by age 50.

More than 50% said their lack of proper planning could leave a problem for their families.

Gen Xers Are the New Sandwich Generation

Published on: May 1, 2019 | By McCulloch & Miller, PLLC

Balancing careers, children, college funds and aging parents present the same-old scenario, but this time to a new generation with a different value system.

Members of Generation X, who straddle a fairly wide age range, from late 30s to early 50s, are feeling the crunch of being responsible for their children and their parent’s needs. How will they ever get a handle on their savings for their own retirement?

U.S. News & World Report reminds us in its article “Essential Strategies for Generation X” that with the right strategies, Gen Xers can find a money-life balance.

What Happens When an Heir Predeceases the Parent?

Published on: January 15, 2019 | By McCulloch & Miller, PLLC

If your will does not address this issue, then your state’s laws will be applied. Speak to an experienced Houston estate planning attorney to see about Texas heir laws.

Estate planning attorneys deal with unexpected issues all of the time, and by their nature, some of them involve sensitive and sad topics. A recent article in The Carroll County Times addressed the question of what happens when a child predeceases a parent. The article, “Legal Matters: If predeceased by an heir in a valid will, what happens with that inheritance?” explains that a will can be prepared for this possibility, and a will can also be changed, if this was not previously considered.

As an example, the Maryland Estate and Trusts Code says “[u]nless a contrary intent is expressly indicated in the will, a legacy may not lapse or fail because of the death of a legatee after the execution of the will but prior to the death of the testator.”

Aging Parents and the Important Conversations to Have Now, Not Later

Published on: October 19, 2018 | By McCulloch & Miller, PLLC

The roles are reversed when parents age. You can’t count on them to take the lead in having discussions about money, health, aging and other concerns that come in the later years.

When you were a kid, your parents were in charge. Now your parents are older, and you must be the adult in the room. Embracing that role, with thoughtfulness, will make it easier for you and your parents as you address the issues that come with aging. As recommended in the article “How to Have Difficult Conversations With Your Aging Parents” from Next Avenue, having these conversations will help you all avoid some of the uncertainty and stress in the future.

Here are the conversations you need to have:

Special Needs Families Need Strong Financial Planning

Published on: September 10, 2018 | By McCulloch & Miller, PLLC

The cost of raising a child with special needs is easily twice that of an average child, and college costs are higher as well.

Families with special needs children need to plan their child’s future carefully in many regards, and financial concerns are, by necessity, a big part of planning. While the average cost of raising a child from birth to 18 is about $250,000, according to The American College of Financial Services, the cost to raise a child with special needs can easily be twice that amount. One of the challenges is preparing for the special needs child when its time to attend college.

WTNH’s recent article, “Financial planning for families with children with special needs,” advises that working with a team of different professionals can help parents manage both the financial and non-financial aspects of providing care. Here are some of the key roles:

What Happens When an Estranged Daughter Shows Up…After Her Father is Gone?

Published on: September 6, 2018 | By McCulloch & Miller, PLLC

She says her father was suffering from Alzheimer’s disease, and that’s why he cut her out of the will. However, she also hadn’t seen or spoken to him for more than two decades.

There’s a big estate battle brewing in Britain, where the 61-year-old daughter of Reg Grundy, Kim Robin Grundy, is challenging her father’s second wife with a will contest. Kim, who goes by the name Viola La Valette, is after part of her father’s $900 million estate. The fact that she refused to see him, even while he was supporting her, is not making her a popular figure.

Starts at 60’s article, “Reg Grundy’s daughter says he had Alzheimer’s when he cut her from will,” says that the TV tycoon, who was responsible for Australian shows like Neighbours and Wheel of Fortune, died in May 2016 at the age of 92. He left the majority of his estate to his wife.

When Special Needs Children Become Legal Adults

Published on: May 21, 2018 | By McCulloch & Miller, PLLC

The saying “little children, little problems, big children, big problems,” is particularly appropriate for parents of special needs children. Preparing for the next phase takes time, so it’s best to begin the process, once they celebrate their 17^th birthday.

One of the many decisions that parents need to make before a special needs child becomes a legal adult, is whether or not the child needs a guardian, or if the parents need a power of attorney, as detailed in a helpful article from Effingham (IL) Daily News, “Teaching parents about guardianship of disabled children.”

Once a child is age 18, the parent is no longer the child's legal guardian.

What’s on the Mind of Gen-Xers: Not Retirement Planning

Published on: April 26, 2018 | By McCulloch & Miller, PLLC

A survey found that Gen Xers are less concerned about retirement planning than they are about other financial challenges.

Don’t forget that group that’s between the headline grabbing millennials and boomers: Generation Xers, Americans between ages 36-55. A survey from the IRA (Insured Retirement Institute) appears to have uncovered a significant knowledge gap in this group when it comes to personal finance.

Think Advisor’s recent article, “These 3 Threats Scare Gen Xers More Than Basic Retirement Costs: IRI” explains that the survey aimed to find out how Gen Xers are handling retirement planning. The analysts who summarized Gen Xers’ approach to retirement planning said “They’re (mostly) doing it wrong.”

Does Your Estate Plan Match Your Life Right Now?

Published on: April 3, 2018 | By McCulloch & Miller, PLLC

Remember to update your estate plan, especially if your life includes events like new kids, a new marriage or the death of a loved one.

If you love your family, you’ll keep them in mind when considering whether to make an appointment to update your estate, as you go through the inevitable changes of life. Not doing so can create financial and emotional burdens. That’s probably not how you want to be remembered.

According to a recent Newsday article, “Make sure your estate plan keeps up with life changes, experts say,” estate planning may seem overwhelming and depressing because it deals with issues of aging. Some people believe that estate planning is just for the very rich.